A Curse Lifted- Peace received.

The Curse of God- upon a woman:

"and your desire shall be towards your husband, your pain in childbirth shall be increased and in sorrows shall be mutiplied".

Sounds horrible. It IS. And what is worse, 'MAN' holds us to it. But guess what, JUST BECAUSE there is a curse, doesn't mean that you have to have it upon your head and your life forever.
YOU can refuse it. It holds no power over you if you don't let it.

It is a curse for the woman do all that she does FOR her husband. But the truth of the matter is SHE is the one who stays there.... she CHOOSES to stay there because she doesn't know what else to do. She doesn't know SHE has the power to overcome such a curse. She feels bound by her husband's authority and doesn't TAKE for herself what already belongs to her. The husband especially wants her there because of what HE stands to lose if she seperates herself from her curse.... how can you expect ANY different? WHO WOULDN'T want a person at their beck and call. He stands to lose the ONE person he feels the "freedom" to control- - in accordance to man's law, his interpretation of 'Biblical' law and to his ignorant view of his wife.

BLESSED is the MAN who gives himself over to loving his wife as Christ loved the church. Who blesses her, supports her, walks beside her, LIFTS her, who uses his strength for her betterment, who KNOWS the desires of her heart and yearns to give them to her..... in loving HER in this way, what he will receive is greater than what he could ever imagine!!

CURSED is the woman who doesn't CHOOSE to live her life unbound by such oppression.

A man will choose no differently if the WOMAN chooses no differently. The WIFE needs to show him, she needs to teach him, because his view is ignorant. I don't say that with any disrespect.... it's been centuries in the making. Which is why we need to search out the TRUTH of this matter.

ANYone can rise ABOVE a curse. ANYone can choose to refuse it and live their live without a curse. A curse has NO POWER unless the person it's been given to LET'S IT. In regards to the curse of the woman, she can rise above it. "Her desire shall be to her husband" .... a curse. That is oppressive, binding. That her heart is turned towards her husband is not a BAD thing. Woman was created to be a "help meet, a completer" for man. 'Woman' was created as a strong, capable being; creative and gifted/skilled with vision and then given the perserverance to REACH the potential of the vision for her family, children, home. A man BUCKS against that. His EGO bucks against that. He is destroying his strength when he does so.
A woman was created to stand on her OWN feet. She SHOULD do so. Our daughters should be taught this!! A woman should DO and pursue what she wants-- with or without a husband/man.
The CURSE is she does everything FOR the man.
WHY SETTLE FOR THAT CURSE??! She needs to do it for HER self.
In God, we are all equal. ALL !! There's no discrimination by Him- Men, women, children,race ... none of it matters to God. We are created as EQUAL BEINGS. We are ALL HIS CHILDREN. So that being a foundational truth, then you are His child. I am His child. And taking that truth and attaching it to another Truth, God IS Good. He is PERFECT. He is a good, perfect Father who wants healing, health and growth for us, then a good and loving Father would not want His child to suffer and be BOUND by a curse.
I have gone before my GOOD, loving, perfect Father and have asked Him to remove that curse that was placed upon woman from me. In His goodness and love, He DID. Praise to my good, loving,merciful, holy Creator! :) It is lifted. I am FREE from that curse that was placed upon my kind those thousands of years ago.
It's done because He CAN DO that. It is His WILL that I have such freedom- given of Him. He cannot/will not change the 'nature of man'. Man was created with such a free-will nature. So man will ALWAYS seek to destroy, control and serve his own ego- but I don't have to RECEIVE such into my spirit!
And my flesh can RISE above it-- if there is a WILL, there is a way.
In my being released from the curse, what/where will my free-will take me?
My free-will lets ME choose. NO other being can prevent me unless I 'let' them.

FIRST STEPS:
1. I can CHOOSE what I want, for ME. :) If a husband tried to control or has a problem with it, it is exactly that... HIS problem.
Submission is GIVEN , not TAKEN. If it is TAKEN, it is FORCE.
2. I don't have to LET anything he does or says move me or force me from my goal. It is simply an obstacle- the Spirit of God can give me guidance to move around it.
3. No matter what, if I seek God's will and let the fruits of the Spirit be my guide, I can DO what I want (ie, follow the desires of my heart, because I am no longer bound by any curse! yea!!!!). Did you hear that? We can DO what WE want and GOD will provide. God provides for HIS own and I/YOU are HIS :) Let me give you this 'gift' that I received that you also may receive it for yourself >> He owns you -- not as a possession but because you were HIS all along- you were His heart. You are a PIECE of HIM.

In searching out the deepest, darkest corners of your heart and KNOWING who YOU are,then can you begin to know who God is. In knowing YOUR HEART, then you can know GOD heart. In knowing your pain, your weaknesses and strengths; in knowing your warts and your beauty- THEN you can TRULY KNOW God. And in knowing all of that, knowing the TRUTH, of not only who you are but who HE is, you will become free- of bondage and curse.
The TRUTH is> "you" are His heart ... His heart is all good and holy. That IS you - as you were CREATED.
Embrace that.
NOW LIVE like it.

Curse lifted.
Healing given.
Personal Growth
God's grace performed in you = Peace
In sharing that, our world WILL see heaven on earth :)